NO MATTER WHAT WE DO OR DON'T DO, WE WILL ALWAYS BE JUDGED

This blog is mainly focused on how a dying person teaches us to live a life as if it was the last day of
his life as well as he guides us on how we are always being judged under any circumstances.

It is estimated that 100 billion people have died since the beginning of humanity around 153000 people
died on the day we were all born.

 Nikk was dying💀💀….

 Bronnie Ware in her book  talks about the five top regrets of the dying:

•  none of those regrets were about the money🤑💸
•  They were not about work👩‍🏭👷‍♂️
•  They were not about promises, Fame, or followers👍...

This is what they are about:

1. I wish I had not worked so hard

2. I wish I would have the courage to express my feelings

3. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends

4. I wish  that I had let myself be happier

5. I wish I would have the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life other expected of me.

 We die with regrets and wishes, a few hits, but mostly misses and I have heard...

 Les Brown says that  a graveyard is the wealthiest place in the world

• because this is where we can find all of the dreams that were never lived
•  the books that were never written
•  the companies that  were never found
•  the song that was never composed
•  the word that never made a sound
•  all the hopes that were never fulfilled
•  the idea that was never launched
•  the movies that were never produced
•  the trip that was never taken
•  the product that was never used

 Which means that our mind is the biggest graveyard for ❌dead ideas, ❌dead experiences,  and ❌dead
memories that never happened, ❌that never lived, ❌that were never fully given birth.

 All because someone was scared of starting

actually, scratch that: we are not scared of starting we are scared of being seen starting

• no one wants to be seen starting at zero
•  no one wants to be seen starting at the bottom
•  no one wants to be seen starting with nothing

 See,  no matter what we do, do or don't do, we will always be judged

 if you just hang about, people will say that we are not proactive and we are not productive

if we talk about our big visions and start getting active, people will say we are too greedy or we are overworking.

In all of our lives, we will face judgement either way, and that is why we need to live a life true to ourselves not
what are the expected of us?

👉See, people will always tell us about following the rules, live inside the boundaries, and follow the norms
and that is why we don't need to work hard for other priorities but what for our own

👉See, we will always be told we are weak to say how we feel, that revealing your truth is too vulnerable or open,
but that is why we must express our feelings. and see,

•  there will always be disagreements
•  there will always be the distance
•  there will always be arguments
•  there will always be a number of reasons for disconnections
•  but we should stay in touch with those with we love anyway

👉See,  I will always be told to be more serious and focused but we have to let ourselves be happier,

we have to let ourselves laugh and let go.

👉And as Mark Twain said. “ 20 years from now, we will be more disappointed by the things we didn't
do than things we did do”

• we will regret who we did’t forgive
•  we will regret the people we didn't tell our feelings to
•  we will regret that we didn't give our time to the people we love and
•  we will regret that we didn't start

 and  even though you think,

Nikk has all these regrets, and these are all his wishes flashing before his eyes they are not!

 They are his 💖memories, they are his 💖experiences, they are  his 💖reality

👉See,

• He didn't have an illness
• He didn't have a bad health situation
• He didn't have a bad health condition
• He didn't have any bad news

He valued life because he knew one day that he would die and because the thing is, it's just a fact death never fails.

 Marcus Aurelius one said, “ let each thing you would do, Say,
or intend to be like that of a dying person”

1. Let us prepare our mind as if we would come to the very end of life
2. Let us postpone nothing
3. Let us balance life’s books each day

“The one who puts the finishing touches on their life is day is never short of time”, said Seneca

Nikk lived as if he was going to die, and so he could die having truly lived because the truth is, we are always dying so why not live like we already know it?